Hello everyone! How’s your week going? I hope you are enjoying all these articles. Today I am going to talk about good communication, something that I have observed that is being lost at a really worrying step. Over the years, I have noticed that little by little good manners, reading and communication, have been lost, especially on the Internet, and especially since the emergence of smartphones. We live in a society of haste and we have turned our life into a rats’ race at maximum intensity. Every day we want to do things faster and thanks to the mobiles, we can, but at a high cost.
Both reading and writing are crucial to surviving in this society. There are a lot of scams everywhere, especially on the Internet. And why there are these scams? Because they work … thanks to the society in which we live. People do not fully read the messages they receive, even when that person is doing something important in their life. You cannot imagine how many people have problems to follow simple instructions. The vast majority of them, recognize that they had not read the instructions, only the title. In fact, Facebook advises business and stores not to use text-rich photos because people don’t read them anymore. Does not it catch your eye? To me, yes, a lot.
We live in a society where we must sign financial contracts, hire insurance, make purchases, make labor contracts and many other things, where a poor reading, can lead us to the wrong product or get into bigger problems… Small print is still used because thanks to the legal void that exists, the information must be transmitted no matter the form. This certifies that big companies do not care that we read all their writings thoroughly. Now they have it much easier than before, because people are not educated to read things well, but to do them fast. Do not be one of those!
Through the readings that my clients ask me I have encountered many times this problem. And, sadly, more and more. In the last year, has had a considerable rise and is a thing that worries me. If people are not accustomed to reading instructions before proceeding, they will have the same risks (or even more) than an uneducated person to be scammed or erroneously sign something. I could explain thousands of stories that I have seen and friends have told me, but it has no benefit to share them … since they are negative and the solution is very easy. You must get used to reading, and that alone, will be enough to avoid a lot of problems. That’s all you need!
Now we go to good communication and writing. Perhaps you are thinking, what does all this have to do with spirituality? Perhaps there is no connection directly, but indirectly it is greater than you can imagine. One of the many things advanced societies have, which we do not have, are methods of communication that we do not yet know or that, for now, we are not able to perceive or execute. But what we cannot do is reduce our limited communication skills, and we are doing so by leaps and bounds.
More and more we do everything online, from computers to mobile phones. There comes a time when much of our life takes place cybernetically. And that’s great, do not get me wrong. I am transferring information to you and you are reading it. But if we are citizens of the Internet, why do we all lose manners? One thing is a quick mail from your phone to say “I’ll answer later”, but another is if that is your usual communication method. I do not want to bore you, and really this entry is just to give you my point of view with this subject, and if you can avoid a future displeasure, this article will have had its purpose.
It costs us nothing to accompany a decently written email with “hello”, “what’s up?”, “Thank you”, “please”, “goodbye”. It would take us less than a minute of our time and deep down, it’s a one-minute savings. You cannot imagine (perhaps many of you do) the amount of time lost through lack of reading and lack of good communication. And all this can be avoided if we take a couple of minutes to review what we are reading, or writing. We did it 20 years ago, it’s not that difficult!
We have reached the end! I do not want to bore you more. I just wanted you to get the idea and keep in your mind the most important parts about this growing problem. Next week I’m going to talk about a very popular topic, soul mates and twin flames. Although I’m sure it’s going to be very different from the ones you’ve read so far, since it’s not going to be about love … how? Well, next week, you’ll know!
Much Love & Light.
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